Friday, June 13, 2008

"So my friend,she used THAT tactic on u huh?"


An incident that happened to a friend of mine. this must be the third such incident ive heard that was like this. it was jes weird and funny at the same time. and it seems to happen for both the sex as well. not EXACTLY as this one but im sure u get my point.

Putting it simple girl n boy get together and live happily. no serious probs or anything. suddenly out of nowhere girl wants to break up with guy. makes up all sorts of stuff n dump him. he finds out that he was dumped for another guy and there were cheating involved. he changes. and that part of him that he's been resisting and keeping at bay breaks loose and he goes all haywire doing things thats jes not himself. all cos of his recent events and losing faith in some certain things which he used to believe in. girl sees the change and starts critisizing it with mainly the exact words "i dont know him anymore" and "Who the hell are you now" with an annoyed face. so im telling the dude that when she asked that Q u shudve said "im the guy whom u broke up with after making out with that other guy. n yea, its not a secret like u thought it was gonna be. i KNOW!" or sumthing like that instead of jes walking away without saying anything afraid ur gonna hurt her feelings n so. and dont go feeling guilty jes cos she said that. She was the reason u flipped in the first place.

Then theres gonna be talk of how bad a person the guy is NOW by that girl to her friends and all the other guys she dates afterwards. hehe. its somewhat funny i tell u. and it actually happens for both sexes. and i think this is the fourth time. its like one of those incidents that is waiting to be chosen by someone to be played out accordingly. Kinda like "what? u wanna make out with that hot chick but u have a gf? then jes use THAT method. the one where u do this n that n this. works like a charm i tell u".

10 comments:

aesha said...

r u sure?

kaiza shozey said...

maybe the title is giving a wrong impression but sure abt what?

kaiza shozey said...

if u meant am i sure he's telling thhe truth.......nah im not. all i know is he goes abroad for studies, a month later this new guy pops up into her life, they are close friends, she suddenly breaks up and a week later is found enjoying herself with the other guy. hehe. i guess long distance strips ppl of their acting and reveals ppl to be who they really are. and it opens doors which are hard to resist to most ppl. too bad the girl got dumped after the new guy had his fill. hehe

Yaamyn said...

Long distance relationships........ HURT!!!!


Why is it that I'm about to be away from my girl soon, and all I see and hear is about people dumping one another?! *gulp!*

kaiza shozey said...

@yaamyn: cos thats jes what happens. atleast now ull see jes how faithful she really is. maybe its better finding that out now than later on. long dist rarely works. someone always messes up and takes it as an excuse against the other.

Ruba said...

Sometimes the guy starts acting strange and the girl breaks up and then finds our he's been cheating and he "starts" (cough *continues* cough) to go haywire while she gets on with life.

No, seriously, I mean it. It happens. Not as often as your version though :\

shan said...

the word is "player" my friend..hehe :p

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Yaamyn said...

Well. Guess insecurity's part of everyone of us. :-/

kaiza shozey said...

@velvy: ill take ur word for it. hehe. but usually in cases like that doesnt the guy go back to the other girl and get officially together with her? *whistle whistle*

@shan: lol. i guess that summarises it up alot. hehe.

@yaamyn: yep, that it is. even to those badass wannabe's who act like they dont give a damn abt anything. but its when ur insecurities come bite u in the back that it all goes wrong. hehe. when those doubts uve hidden away and left to 'trust' are made true.