Stupid Ppl

Im saying it beforehand this time. The following arent fiction or made up in any way. They are purely based on existing ppl and stuff that has actually happened. SO any resemblance to anyone is made directly on purpose :p


• Ziney ainthu- A hardcore sex addict even if confined to sex with just her bf back then. One day at school Ameeniyya grade 9 if I remember correctly, islam teacher taught them the lesson about ‘ziney kurun’(fornication). She returned home and asked her bf when she met him “mioh hurihaa dhuvahu aharumennah hama ziney dhoey mi kureveny? Aharennah bodu shockeh libunee islam teacher kiyaidhineema”(trans: all these days we really have been fornicating huh? i got a huge shock when our islam teacher explained). The guy was like WTF???!! Too bad her new discovery didn’t change much. They had sex that very same day as well.


• Some guy we knew usually talked about jes how much sex he has with his gf, the different stuff they do etc. SO one day we asked him whether if he had ever done anal with her. And he goes “subuhaanallah! Mashakee haraan kanthah kuraa meeheh noon”(Trans: Gasp! Im not someone who sins)

• An unmarried couple was having sex when suddenly they heard the ‘fathis’ prayer. The guy thought “mifaharu molhu kameh kohlaanan”(trans: im gonna do something wise). So he stood still with it still inside her and didn’t move a single muscle until the prayer ended and then continued. Boy was he proud of himself when he told the story. It was as if god scnanned down onto earth during prayer times and if he didn’t move god wouldn’t notice him o sumthin. Atleast he had his mojo going even throughout the prayer call.

• Another unmarried couple was having sex when suddenly they too heard the prayer. This time the girl jumped out of bed and ran to the CD player which was playing a song at loud volume so that their moans would be lost in it. She quickly turned it off saying it wasn’t a good thing to play music during prayer times.

The Ultimate Insult

A flat chested girl once got caught having sex with a guy, to her brother. Her brother got so furious that he shaved her head. She wore the veil for a few months and just when her hair started to grow again she took the veil off.
She was going for a walk on the streets when a group of guys saw her coming their way. One of them jes kept looking at her from afar. She was walking towards them ofcourse. So he jes kept staring at her. When she came upto them he goes “sorry, I thought u were a girl”. She jes kept walking on and after she had gone about 50feet or so she suddenly stopped. All the guys were by now laughing ofcourse. That was the point where she suddenly GOT what the guy had said. She turned around her face all purple and shaking and gave them the finger and jes walked away. Got the insult?

Does parents really know what life is like? Or has the world changed since they were young and should we be free to do what we like?

Almost everything is managed nowadays by computers. Yet the parents of today are not familiar with computers, in the same way there was an explosion of knowledge after 1949 and the parents did not know anything about modern mathematics or electronics. So, as man makes giant strides in knowledge, each generation is left behind.

What does this make of the parent-young relationship? There is a growing tendency for the young person to think he is better than his parents, better educated, more knowledgeable. He tends to patronize his parents. And above all he feels he should be given his freedom long before he is earning his own living.

Along with all the advances has been the invasion of forces that tend to defy moral values that have been in existence for a long time. There is drug addiction, alcoholism, trial marriages, the pill which gives sexual licence. What is the parent’s role in all this? Or is the young person right when he claims he can cope with the problems of today.

There are two schools of thought. There is the strict parent who, because he controls the purse strings, demands absolute obedience. As the children grow older and begin to earn their own living, they have become so used to obeying their parents that the parents continue to dominate their lives. These children usually are well behaves, good mannered and nice boys and girls. However, one or two of the younger ones may rebel and become ‘black sheep’, and they usually turn out to be the drug addicts and problem-ridden persons.

Then there are permissive parents, themselves well educated and liberal in their views. They may not agree with their children’s views but they feel that their children are entitled to their views, and do not stand in their way. They have to stand by and watch their children make mistakes and learn by their mistakes. They could have stopped their children but they believe that their children were entitled to their freedom. The children of these parents grow up strong and self-reliant but often bitter and rather self-opinionated.

I suppose what we need are wise parents who demand a certain amount of obedience and a given amount of liberty. If they think their children are headed for the rocks they should step in and demand obedience until that particular crisis is past. On matters that seem important to children they should be liberal within reason. And knowing more facts than the parents does not make children wiser than their parents. This should make it clear that in a dead-lock issue they should consult others, other young people and other parents.

But I think it most important that parents make the children feel secure, give them the feeling that they will always support them. And parents above all want love from the children more than respect. Children never realise that parents become frightened if the children assume power. When they are frightened the parents demand respect in unreasonable situations.

And parents should realise that when children become frightened they become disobedient, alienated; they fail to tell their parents the real problem that is worrying them. And above all, in human relationship there must be a give-and-take attitude or the rope will snap.

What do u think?

Lover, You Shouldve Come Over

Looking out the door I see the rain fall upon the funeral mourners
Parading in a wake of sad relations as their shoes fill up with water
And maybe Im too young to keep good love from going wrong
But tonight youre on my mind so you never know

When Im broken down and hungry for your love with no way to feed it
Where are you tonight, child you know how much I need it
Too young to hold on and too old to just break free and run

Sometimes a man gets carried away, when he feels like he should be having his fun
And much too blind to see the damage hes done
Sometimes a man must awake to find that really, he has no-one

So Ill wait for you... and Ill burn
Will I ever see your sweet return
Oh will I ever learn

Oh lover, you shouldve come over
cause its not too late

Lonely is the room, the bed is made, the open window lets the rain in
Burning in the corner is the only one who dreams he had you with him
My body turns and yearns for a sleep that will never come

Its never over, my kingdom for a kiss upon her shoulder
Its never over, all my riches for her smiles when I slept so soft against her
Its never over, all my blood for the sweetness of her laughter
Its never over, shes the tear that hangs inside my soul forever

Well maybe Im just too young
To keep good love from going wrong

Oh... lover, you shouldve come over
cause its not too late

Well I feel too young to hold on
And Im much too old to break free and run
Too deaf, dumb, and blind to see the damage Ive done
Sweet lover, you shouldve come over
Oh, love well Im waiting for you

Lover, you shouldve come over
cause its not too late

-Jeff Buckley-

Comments

These are some of the other previous comments that i received for the "relationships. why do they fail?".


noor said...
intense arra..very intense:P..


Anonymous said...
yeah it's definately not a minority thing in regards to the whole cheating but women cheat because they're lacking something from the relationship they're in. they need to feel complete intimacy. they need to feel attractive. decent men cheat for that same reason i guess but sleazy guys do it coz they wanna outdo their mates in the "who they bagged" talk


Anonymous said...
v true..specially dat part about girls forgiving guys too easily..i swear its horrible wat girls let guys get away with..i know this guy who cheats with every girl he can..and his gf knows all too well dat he cheats..but does she let him go? noop! afterall they are in "love"..another guy treats his gf like hell..he insulted her parents..yells at her..threatens of cheating..the girl is never happy..but even she is staying with him cos she thinks the guy loves him..

wake up ppl...love aint sacrificing who u are and becoming sum1 u wudnt even dream of becoming..or giving up all ur values! and ppl who love u definately do not treat u badly..

a lotta girls and even guys i suppose ( how obvious is it dat im a girl:p ) hold on to a bad relationship sayin dat a guy changed and in hopes dat he wud change bak...most of the time he didnt change..the good parts were jes a ploy!


Baby aNgeL said...
guys make gals slut!!! to make them happy she have to sacrifice all that!! but wen will this guys understand all that!!! r gals juss made for them as toys!!! cmon..pay some respect to gals also: P


kaiza shozey said...
errr....oooook. but u know, its not like whenever a guy does what he does, gals have to give in or nething. guys have been using the same tactics and methods over and over again throughout the generations. isnt it time gals learnt not to fall for it? and come on, u let us take advantage of it dho? plus, u dont HAVE to be with a guy who makes u sacrifice it all dho? :)


charlie brown said...
talking or sharing ideas arent gonna change anything. to put it simply, relationships dnt work because ppl are incompetent and selfish. there's always something or someone to blame...


RigeL said...
very deep man. i like the part abt deep penetration. very well put.


Anonymous said...
Girls forgive guys too easily because they need the emotional attachment. They are willing to believe anything just as long as they know that there's going to be someone there at the end of the day. If they leave they might not think that they'd find someone else or they can't imagine being alone as a lot of girls have low self esteem. Some girls aren't like this though and love the independence. It's an interesting argument. The majority is agreeable but at the end of the day it comes down to a generalised opinion.


The Shadowrunner said...
Ah, this text is one of the seven sacred scriptures!.

Nice, desu.


Anonymous said...
i totally agree with what u have said in the post. and thats one way of explaining what love is....in ur opinion. nicely said though.


Dragonfly said...
I've seen an NGC program that broke 'love' down to pheromones, and compared it with having similar effects on your brain as cocaine...
Interesting program it was.


Anonymous said...
love is vastly and misinterpreted topic...u cud write a book abt it..then again i wudnt bother to read it...


kaiza shozey said...
Dragonfly: i gues it does have that strong an effect on ur brain.The problem is it can hurt like hell 2 if sumthin wrong.
Anonymous: ur right.Even i wont bother readin it.I get bored jes readin vat i wrote about it.Hehe. Shhh! ;)


charlie brown said...
"And don’t try to find the bestfriend within your boyfriend/girlfriend. Try to find the boyfriend/girlfriend within your bestfriend"

are you implying something here? how thoughtful of you heheheheh


The Shadowrunner said...
Ahh, good stuff, this.
:D

And love is NOT like cocaine.

Relationships. Why do they fail? (2/2)

The relationships we face in our community works like the barter system. The guy gives gifts, treats, dinners from exotic restaurants, poems probably copied from somewhere and the long phone calls or sweet sms’s. And from the girl’s side to show her appreciation a permit which allows the guy to fulfill his sexual desires. The girl feels as if the guy is giving her so much and loving her so much, but she is unable to give gifts or show that love for him. Soon when the guy approaches physically she gives in thinking that she is now showing her love and trust for him. That it’s the least she can do for this wonderful boyfriend of hers. Most of the time she enjoys it even more so whats to stop her in a world where religion is jes a name and cover. Its like a business. And love is just a word with no meaning. There was a time when the word was so strong that no matter how long both of them were together, those three words ‘I love you’ wouldn’t jes slip out or be easy to say to jes anyone. It was priceless. Times sure have changed. Now its always love at first sight. Then how come the relationships fail? And just how many ‘love at first sights’ does each one have?


Oh yes! Almost forgot. There are two more reasons why relationships fail. One, parents. There have been cases where both mates have madly fallen for each other but were forced to cut the rope because of their parents. Lets say if the guy is from a poor family or if the parents feel that their daughter deserves a better life. And of course there have also been cases where the two are forced to separate due to shall I say, natural causes.

What is love? The feeling of affection and desire towards someone. That’s what the dictionary says anyway. But let me tell you something. Love is when the slightest details of someone which is insignificant to others seem fascinating to you. The desire to be with someone and share everything with him/her. There is no feeling of boredom no matter how long you spend time with him/her. When the personality of someone comes way before everything else. When money, looks and sex is of not much significance. It is when you know your partner so much that he/she doesn’t even have to tell you what he/she desires. It is when you can tell how he/she is feeling just by looking into his/her eyes. It is when he/she becomes a really poor liar to you. It is when love is showed not by words but by the actions. Love him/her for who he/she is. When starting a relationship you'd know him/her so well as if both of you had been together your whole life. Look for someone who really loves you for who you are. And don’t try to find the bestfriend within your bf/gf. Try to find the bf/gf within your bestfriend. Try to make your first your last. Give meaning to the word 'love'. (oh god! I sound as if im an expert o sumthing with love. Blech!)

Some of you might have a hard time in believing what i jes wrote but believe it. Whether u like it or not. And im not saying everyone is like that. There are some really wonderful people out there who still give meaning to the word ‘love’.most of the above that ive stated are from the stuff that guys and girls have confessed about. I had to do a lil survey back then too.lol.

Relationships. Why do they fail? (1/2)

This is sumthing i wrote a few years back when I was given the topic.
Relationship indicates a strong emotional association between two of the opposite sex. Well… it needn’t be of the opposite sex. Everybody needs passion, affection, love and most importantly empathy. The ability to imagine, experience and share another person’s feelings.


The most important factor which is looked upon in our community in a relationship is the looks. That is considered the basic and first priority by almost everyone. A boy meets a girl. “WOW! She’s hot. Look at that shape and figure. Bet my hands can be put to good use on her body. If my friends saw me with her they’d be so jealous of me”. He’d go and introduce himself to her and after a couple of weeks or sometimes few days of hard work, comes a small but planned speech. “With you it was love at first sight. I’d do anything for you” etc. etc. And his persistence is finally rewarded. Sex is one thing that’s mainly on his mind. But he needs to take it step by step. Just like reeling in a fish. If u struggle too hard the fish gets away after cutting the line or without having a go at the bait. U need to deceive the fish into taking the bait, get a real good grip and then reel it in. At first it starts with some kissing. After a few days it’s followed by a little exploring of the body. Some take it further into deep penetration. It goes on and on until the guy finds a new hole….errr…..i mean a taste for new kind of fish OR until the girl FINALLY comes to realize what he had wanted all this time. That’s when the problems reach its limit and the so called impenetrable bond is broken. Not much damage is done in the process though. It takes roughly about a week or so for them to move on and start the whole procedure all over again with someone new. But there are some who actually learn something from the experience and has a better start though that’s really rare.


The female side of the story is pretty much the same. Their relationship starts with the same going for the looks and the guy’s continuous persistence. The girls do it mainly to fit in with their friends. “Hey! Everybody’s taking boyfriends. Why shouldn’t I?” Too much Sweet Valley, romantic stories and romantic movies have clouded up their minds. Almost everyone believes too much in the ideal relationship. They have the image in their mind but isn’t willing to take it the way they should for that ideal relationship. They don’t want to go by the rules. Just expects everything to take its own course and the ideal relationship to come their way. They’d believe in everything the guy says. Lets say the guy goes and penetrates the girl’s best friend. The best friend comes to her and explains everything that had happened. Anyone who heard of such a situation would surely say that the girl would dump the guy right? Well… wrong answer. She goes to question the guy. But he’s so sly that she believes him and his excuses. He would first use the tactic ‘Denial’. When that doesn’t work he jes admits to what happened with lots of excuses and vows that it was his first time and that it would never happen again. That he loved her beyond description or comparison. After all, this is her boyfriend, the so called love of her life, the guy who bought all the gifts, the guy who continuously took her out to dinners and the guy who says ‘I love U’ over and over again. The so called best friend is soon out of a job and is sent to find another job elsewhere as someone else’s best friend.


The greatest weapon wielded by the guy or girl is the ‘trust story’. “What? You don’t trust me? I love you. And if you can’t trust me then how can this relationship survive?” Sweet huh? Hey! It works. And most of the time as soon as the relationship ends or the girl is dumped, there comes the ‘rebound guy’. The guy who comes into her life during her emotional breakdown or time of need. The guy who is always with her during those days. Most of the time it’s a guy who has a thing for the girl but WAS unable to approach her cos she wasn’t single. The process jes keeps on repeating on and on. And before she knows it she has already gotten together with dozens of guys and made out with even more. In other words it suddenly strikes her that she has now become a slut. Soon the age of marriage comes and she gets married to the guy who is by then her boyfriend. The knot is tied, she soon becomes pregnant and her life of relationships come to an end.