Sunday, November 25, 2007

Raped and Pregnant




A girl is raped and gets pregnant. She wants to talk to you of all ppl. Jes talk. Doesn’t wanna talk about what happened to her. She wants to talk about what happened to you to be the way you are. You don’t wanna talk about it cos she is pretty much a complete stranger to you. But she refuses to tell what happened to her unless you do. And she wont let you walk out or away from her either. Cos she wont speak a single word to anyone else. You ask her why she chose you. She says she doesn’t know and that there’s something about you that she cant quite explain. So you talk to her. And after some time she tells u everything.

Later you tell your friends who had wanted you to go talk to her. You tell them that she told u about the rape but you don’t tell them what happened.

“She’s talked about her rape to you. That’s HUGE. U did good.”
You debate back to them jes to be argumentative.
“Really?And everyone will tell you that’s what we gotta make her do. We gotta help her right? Except we cant. We drag out her story. Tell each other itll help her heal. Feel real good about ourselves. But what we’ve only done is make a girl cry.”

She later asks you.
“Do I abort? Isnt abortion murder?”
“Yea, it’s a life.”
“And isnt real life sacred? Doesn’t every life matter to god?” “Life doesn’t matter to me, to u, and judging by the number of natural disasters not to god either. So what about Hitler? Is his life sacred to god? The problem with exceptions to rules, is the line drawn. Might make sense to kill the ass that did your raping. Wonder where we draw the line. Which asses do we get to kill. Which asses gets to keep on being asses. Nice thing about the abortion debate is we can quibble over the trimesters but ultimately there’s a nice cold line…..Birth. Morally not a lot of difference but practically HUGE.”

11 comments:

*dot said...

O_O =(

by sharing it.. she gets comfort.. the ppl who know about it.. who she shares it to.. should help her.. give her the courage she needs.. she'll be goin thru hell right now most probably.. she needs the advice to make the right decision.. and she needs the particular person to be by her side..

god bless her *amen*

aesha said...

wel this comment wont make sense

"noone owes nothing for noone"

starky..... said...

hmmmmm.....still thinkin....wat the hell

kaiza shozey said...

@aesha: no. vat u said did make sense. :)

@freespirit:she gets comfort n u shud giv her the courage she needs huh? and the advice she needs huh? all for what? to be by her side. hmmmm. for how long? as long as she needs you to huh? then she can run off and pretend u never existed...UNTIL she messes up again and needs your help again. anyone ever tell u not to be too caring, devoted or nice? ppl take advantage of it u know. yea i know. OMG! i have no heart at all huh? hehe. you of all ppl shud know better. but oh well. too bad.

@starky: lemme know after ur done thinking :p

Anonymous said...

hmm.. how do u kno dat its a rape case??.. sumtimes ppl who do stuff like dat do make up their own gud stories so dat they dont get blamed.. nn also they may want others sympathy nn attention cos they kno confessin for wat they did will make others against them..:S

kaiza shozey said...

@anonymous: hmmm, nice new approach. yea, that has happened alot too huh? there has been some girls even over 18yrs old who claim that they get raped on and on by related ppl etc and go around telling everyone they meet what has happened to them jes to get sympathy from ppl. stuff that happens to ppl like these arent stuff u wud go around telling ppl u jes meet. but some ppl do that. who knows. maybe ur right. Or maybe it really is a rape. there has been cases like that as well. but doesnt change the fact that she is pregnant and need to deal with that at the moment.

iecco said...

err i dunno what to say :/

Anonymous said...

Methinks you've been watching too much of House, M.D. 12th episode (One Day, One Room) of Season 3 to be precise.

starky..... said...

ok done thinkin........yes talkin is good...jus knowing u helped someone is a good feeling....but some people do tend to come only when they are in trouble and when u help them through it u dont exist....those are ass double holes

then they are assholes who find people like that in trouble show that they care...only to take advantage of that person in that persons moment's weakness

yes abortion after three months is murder medically and religously.....


and u know sometimes cryin is good to let the feeling out.....its not bad when someones cries their heart....u dont feel abt it....cause they wont as they will feeling easier as they hav a lot out which they hav kept hidden


and let me know if my thinkin is correct

*dot said...

well guess what. people have their reasons.

but..in that case i guess i should just shut up.. "i'm sorry" <-- and i know that is not gonna make any difference.. but i am.

kaiza shozey said...

@starky: i replied to ur comment even yesterday but its still not there. neways i was jes saying that i totally agree with what u jes said. we even talked abt this whole thing before too dho

@freespirit:yea, sorry doesnt make that big a difference. but its a start. and explaining what really happened is another thing.but some ppl jes keep running away from it all hoping ppl would jes forget or as if its all gonna disperse into the air thru time o sumthing instead of facing it and being honest abt it. but if u believe that certain person doesnt deserve to know the truth or wasnt anywhere near being a friend hu deserves to know the truth, then its upto u dho?