Something which ill never understand. Falling in love with and seeking a person of the same gender as a lover or partner. even some maldivians most of whom still cant even say it openly exposing themselves, actually support them. but those that do anonymously especially in blogs are saying "whats the big deal about it?". that if two ppl of the same gender love each other they should be able to live life as they like. thats its not a problem at all. and how much they have been fighting for those rights. and yada yada yada.
And heres my logic to it. its considered wrong for a man to go and have sex with an animal. why? cos its not human. so lets move on to humans. but it seems its not good to have sex with a child. ofcourse thats jes wrong. so how about a 50yr old man gettin it on with a 20yr old woman? or maybe a 20yr old guy with a 50yr old woman? u see where im getting at? so why are you against what ive jes mentioned? its jes wrong aint it? so a man having sex with another man.......does that sound right to u? o.O its jes wrong even health wise. so many complications are arising from it. but MAYBE like some ppl like to believe, IF we keep on having anal sex who knows. maybe one day the future generation of mankind would evolve in a way to accomodate for that as well. *whistle*
But seriously ppl. gays and lesbians? and speakin of lesbians here's something id like to point out which i have to give credit to women. when men hear about lesbians over 90% of the male population doesnt think its disgusting at all. and more than 90% of the male population thinks a guy on a guy is simply disgusting. BUT when women are asked the question one would like to think they would be pretty much the same as a difference that it would be opposite. but thats not how it is right? with women they seem to like the thought of lesbians a hell lot more than the idea of a guy on another guy. raises alot of questions now doesnt it? *whistle whistle* and ive met quite a number of women who actually openly admit that they dont get disgusted on the idea of lesbians and some say that they wouldnt mind trying it out. whereas with guys its a completely different case when talking about a guy with a guy. is this the point where im gonna be told that its happening because women are more open and guys arent?
So those ppl who actually support gay rights and all, why do u support them and if u really do, why cant u say it out in the open? and why is it among a gay couple that they actually have a need for one of them to be the husband and the other the wife? and pls tell me that you dont really think theres nothin wrong with that pic up there?
and this is in reply to something paperclippenny mentioned in the comments. i know that different ppl will have different likes or views on diff matters. one might think the best profession is being a doctor while others might think something else. one might like the colour blur while the other red. one might believe wearing "jubbaa" is a must while others dont. but there are some things where each and everyone of us draws a line. for me this gay thing is one of them. i dont agree with drinking, choosing different religions, using drugs etc etc. but ive got friends who do so. but that does not mean id treat them any differently or hold grudges against them. as long as they dont try to influence me or others into it, its their own thing. and i agree with what u said about "as long as they are not forcing themselves on the innocent". but boasting and being proud about it to the point on having parades, making out in the open, dressing up(more liking undressing up) for such occassions...thats jes too much.
And like anonymous has said it. how sure are we that people we know arent going to get dragged into it. all i know is that a guy would love to have many girls around. pretty sure gays would want the same thing. how many ppl do u think would get dragged into it. every thing is taken step by step. look back a few years. there was a time when "hanee" was pretty much the only gay person we heard of in Maldives. thats not the case now is it? how long do u think it would take maldives to reach the state America or Thailand is in right now, with gay marriages, gay get togethers, transexuals etc etc? not to mention the fact that most of us are starting to believe that progress involves acceptance and rights for people to live any way they wanna live. freedom of this and that. first off sure, we would be thinking its ok for us as long as we dont get dragged into it. im sure most ppl in america and thailand were thinking the same thing a couple of years back. *shrug* all im saying is that there's always a boundary and in my views this is crossing that boundary and more ppl should be aware of it.
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what i believe is that a person can choose to have sex with an animal if they want to
its their choice
although i also believe that its against everything we believe
gay Maldivians know that they are doing a wrong thing, and they'll get their punishment on judgment day
i don't care whether anyone is gay or not, ulhey gothakah ulhenvee undhagoo nukoh ulhenyaa
vaane kameh vaane evaa dhuvahakun
adhi thi eh nooney, sex before marriage o?
EVERYTHING about that pic is wrong. i just find it downright disgusting..and yes, i find a guy on a guy more disgusting than two girls doing it. bbbbut, this doesn't mean i am open and up for doing it. nope, I'm not. and i don't support gay rights at all. they should be castrated for all i care. *shrug*
@mini: jes one small thing. dont u think they would try to influence others into it? maybe ppl u know perhaps? or if thinking of it as a parent, ur children perhaps?
and sex before marriage huh? hehehe. i think we all know that over 80% of Maldivians are into that. girls justify it saying that they are doing it with the love of their life who they are gonna marry anyway(even if it in the ends turns out to be 5-6guys) and as for guys, heres something a blogger had to say abt that paraphrased ofcourse "if ur gonna buy something u always test it out beforehand. so the same if ur gonna marry and be with someone for the rest of ur life might as well as see if its gonna be good sex before u do get married". *whistle whistle*
@dhondhooni:heheh. im glad u agree with me on this. castrated huh? though i wudnt go that far. that would create another "sausage goalhi" in male'.hehe
There are lot of complications for homosexual people.And its not right to say we dont care.When such things get introduced, what about the different types of "balimadukan" that it brings? Not necessarily physical diseased.But mental as well.
And saying you dont care, means you are shrugging off your responsibility.AS this blogger has said, what are the chances, they will effect others? Thats not all, many issues will be there.And as a Muslim as a Maldivian, its not right to say you dont care.The right thing to say would be its disgusting, and we dont want such people in this land.
Beware of what you guys say.Looth AS ge zamaanuga kanthaivvee goi, better refer.
It was a nation destroyed cos of Sodomy.
I have no qualms against homosexuals. I have friends who are gay. Does being gay make them less than better people? No, I don't think so. As long as they are not forcing themselves on the innocent, i see no issue.
And I have no problem about stating my opinion out in the open.
And I have no problems telling u this because i know u view everything in a somewhat open-minded manner.
@anonymous: i had to read it twice to actually see what u were getting at(if im notmistaken). so i take it that ur comment was for Mini huh?
@paperclippenny:i know what u mean but my views on it differ.for example i know that different ppl will have different likes or views on diff matters. one might think the best profession is being a doctor while others might think something else. one might like the colour blur while the other red. one might believe wearing "jubbaa" is a must while others dont. but there are some things where each and everyone of us draws a line. for me this gay thing is one of them. well, i guess ill include another paragraph in the post about it. else this comment is gonna be too long. btw, "
And I have no problems telling u this because i know u view everything in a somewhat open-minded manner". that came as a surprise. thanx
oops.You had to read it twice? Sorry about that, I did not come so clear.
Perhaps my English was not as good.
What I tried to tell is its not right, and its not right to accept it, and its not right to say you dont care.Infact we should acknowledge it is an evil.We are not Americans.!
And to conclude I said, Loothge faanu ge gaumuge meehunai veegoi, its worth refering.
Why dont you present a post on it?
Your posts must say are not bad.
By being gay, you are victimising yourself for all evils, for certain diseases, and for the wrath of Allah.
Islam prohibits all evils.
no offense to Mr.Maldivian, but i guess even this has been this way or that been related to politics. ulhe ulhefaves mi ais jeheny hama eh thaaku dho.. lol
and i agree with anony and the last para kaiza added to the post. i wouldn't, even in a dream, want any of my relatives or kids to become one of em.
@anonymous: no no. i know what u said.heheh. i got a bit confused when u were saying "its not right to say we dont care", cos i dont remember saying that or implying that in my post. i was saying the opposite. so got a bit confused and read it again. but i see that u were saying that in reply to Mini's comment. werent u?
and yea, loothugefaanu bit did cross my mind. but i wasnt trying to write this post in a religious point of view. thats why i didnt mention it. but maybe its a point worth mentioning.
@anon2: yea, but like i said before i was trying to present it in a non-religious point of view.hehe. islam indeed prohibits all evil but the problem with us is that we try to find ways to justify to ourselves that following the ways of islam arent right, or in other words we try to find ways to get past it.
@mrmaldivian: i was a bit surprised when i saw ur age.in a good way ofcourse. its rare to see a blogger between 20-30yrs who would talk about islam and emphasizing on its importance. most guys that age nowadays are trying to act cool which they believe can be achieved by showing the world that uve defied islam and arent a believer boasting about it and talking ill of it all as if he is actually trying to convince himself. such a shame to see that. what makes them think they seem cool by doing so anyway? :s
as long as its not in public & the people or things involved are not forced, fooled or harmed
i dont give a f#@k what they do
its their choice
"there was a time when "hanee" was pretty much the only gay person we heard of in Maldives"
Tsk tsk.
You live in such a small world in every possible way.
@simon: whoa! now thats disappointing simon. didnt u ever take into consideration that there might be a gap in between both our ages? and that we are both two completely different people? the way both of us grew up? Fortunately for me, when i had finished my primary studies he was the only one i knew. so congratulations in having known many gay maldivians when u were growing up :) *claps*
hullo dude you do lived in a closed world... i dont think u and i have such a gap between our ages is it now? and i knew that hanee wasnt the only person who was gay... She was the only one who openly showed it. i dont have anything against it.. im more sick and disgusted by people who treats them different because they are gay im not saying you do :)
@andhu: i was talking about ppl who openly showed it :P
it cracks me up andhu refering "hanee" as a female. lol
At MrMaldivian above: Most gays I know aren't sexually frustrated pervs looking to kidnap your child.
And yes, I agree with Simon and andhu that you DO live in a very small, closed world.
Homosexuals are born that way and I can't help but empathize with them for the simple fact that you keep going on about how they are 'wrong' or 'evil' or 'should be castrated' for no fault of theirs.
Their whole lives DO NOT revolve around sex. Gays can be very devoted partners - as much as straight 'normal' folk.
I don't see why you should bother talking about something as personal someone else's sexual preferences...
@yaamyn: nothings personal as long as im not talking about a specific person. and where have i said they should be castrated? :s and yea, i know their lives dont revolve around sex. ive got friends who are gay too. some of them are really nice and fun people too. it pisses me off when i see people teasing them for the way they walk and talk. but still, i belive its wrong and so im saying that. its called a difference of opinion. :) and it doesnt mean im gonna be a part of those ppl who harrass them on the streets or even beat them up. Or castrate them as uve mentioned.
i think maybe the "they should be castrated" yaamyn is reffering to was something i wrote.. and i wrote it like it this "they should be castrated for all I care"..please marks the word "I".. as kaiza said, it's just a difference in opinion.
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