Gonna write about a post i never thought id write in here. but here goes. something that happened. theres this friend of mine. we are friends and nothing more. she's even got a bf(if that thought had crossed thru ur head :p)
her b'day was a few months back. i was there to wish her face to face at 12 that night. asked her vat she wanted and she couldnt come up with anything. i didnt wanna buy something that might turn out to be something she didnt fancy, so i gave her Rf300 so that she could buy whatever she wanted whenever she wanted(yes, she was a dear friend). always been there for her whenever she needed me. dont remember ever letting her down. yada yada yada.
then comes my bday and all i got was an sms saying happy birthday same as total strangers from facebook and blogging. she didnt come over to see me that day or even called once. i invited her to the party that night to which she didnt come. didnt even have the common courtesy to call me up or send an sms saying she cant come. not one even the following day or an apology and not even a mere 'sorry' or reason for not showing up. ive done so much for her as a friend ever since we got to know each other like over 2yrs back. come on. i have expectations from her as well. what ive stated above......thats vat i expected of her. ATLEAST one or two of them. but going to the point of not even having common courtesy?
and i even tried calling her over and over again to no avail. she didnt pick up the fone or even reply to any sms. but right afterwards i send an sms that shows that im pissed. she immediately replied
Her:"im not avoiding you. just really living a bit away from the
world. ive my reasons for that. i know its not fair n all but cant
help it"
Me:"yea, it definitely isnt fair at all.bt i 'totally' understand u
being out of the world enough:
*to not even giv me a cal on my bday
*nt myt me evn once in those 24hrs
*not come for even 15mins even wen invited for the party
*not even having the courtesy to call to say u cant come
*not even a bloody sms
*not a call or sms even on the next day
*nt reply to the sms i send
*and not even pik up the fone wen i call
*in short i guess i wasnt half the friend to u as u were to me to even
have common courtesy on my bday of all days.the day dat was supposed
to be MY day. but NOOOOO, u are too out of this world. tell u vat.
stay there :)
Her: thats exactly the txt i had in mind that u would send. i did text
u to wish u that day. u were too busy textin someone else but didnt reply to
mine. i told u i mite not be able to go. yea i know i shud have cald.n
dont go on sayin that half the friend thing....i knw ive been a
horrible one. n of all the ppl, i dont expect you to understand this
either. stay there? ummm fine
Me:I never said u didnt wish me. u DID send me an sms saying hapy bday
the same as the strangers from facebook. yea, i posibly cant
understand u. no one wud. jes u n maybe ur friend.
plus i didnt reply to anyone who wished me with just an sms.i figured
u werent like that.but turned out the whole world revolved just around
u and ur problems lately too.if ur goin thru somethin,must try hard to
show it and make others fyl bad abt it as wel.jes forget everything
theyve done for you n how special a day it mite be for ur 'friend'.
none of it matters if ur going thru something. never expected this from u guys.
leave the other two.but u? total disappointment!
so there u have it. i know i know. i need anger management. i dont
expect her to buy me a cake and wish me at 00:00 going to anyplace i
was and then giving me a wonderful present and dinner and the lot. but
i expect something more than just an sms with a 'happy bday' from a
friend to whom i have been there for her more than even her bfs. ive
always been there in her time of need and made a difference on her
bday. i was a really close friend of hers and she was mine. so those
points ive stated above. asking for atleast one of it from a close
friend......is that asking for too much? dont i have a right to be mad
at her? if it was just another person i wudnt have given a shit. but
this wasnt just anyone. and i believe its worse to
hold it all in and jes fake a smile and be the person who always go "i
totally understand. its all ok. i have no problem at all with any of
it. so lets smile and pretend nothing ever happened"
but i did feel a bit guilty abt it later and i did apologise to her. but i also did mention that i wont change what i had said cos that was exactly what was going thru my head that night and was something i believed in. so what do u think? ive already made up my mind abt it but wanna hear if there's a different opinion.
61 comments:
the jury would now like to hear the defendant's side of the story.
not jes the jury. me too. thihen kanneynge dho mi kiyanee about the whole common courtesy thing.
yeah, frends shud be there for each other. i totally agree with u. some people just dont know how to treat frends. and those are the ones who really gets me all riled up.
i dont have a gud gal frend. they are all the same. blabber asses. but i have this really close guy frend of mine, who is really nice. hes a great frend. and im begining to make this other new frend too =D
dude...its either you are in love with this girl...or you are just pissed off...dont expect return dude...thats life and happiness in ma sense...and true meaning of caring for someone else...but...ya..we are nothing but mammals...desire is just in our DNA...am 31 and had lots of good times and a lot of bad moments with friends..but hey...ce la vie
what you did was right, and what you felt was right too
she was just, rude
birthday boy didnt get wished so birthday boy made boo boo
@calli pix: thank you. nice reply. totally agree with u on that. hehe. even the last bit.
@franky: its in our dna huh? hehe. hmmmm, and dont worry. its not love. but pissed off?....yep. u got that right.
@mini: thank you .
@iya: didnt get wished? sounds like someone jes couldnt resist writing the usual crap so couldnt even put himself thru reading the post before commenting.heheh. and dude, seriously. wait til u get a laptop and guitar on ur bday before going all boo boo on others. *hint hint*
one word : materialistic
2nd: WTF
this just shows u do anything and everything expecting a return. i dunno wats worse.
@anonymous: i see u still havent got the main point of this post but ill reply to ur comment as well. YES! ur right. i DO expect a return be it a very bad thing in ur eyes or not. im not expecting even half of the return but i DO expect a return. everyone expects a return. some big, some small. be it a thank you or even a smile. there are no unselfish acts. even parents expect a return though they dont make demands. but they DO have expectations of their children. even if its to study hard, or be good and kind, or even to respect and love their parents. and whats more....even God expects return from us. so once again...YEA! i DO expect return. im jes surprised that u'd be this much in denial. oh well. each to their own.
somehow everything doesn't revolve around u.....just because u cared u gave her....come one she mite be able as u to give something..at least she did wish u...anyways she is having her own problems wants to be left alone and don't wanna be around people....so maybe thats y didn't come to the party....yes people do expect things in return but if u don't get anything u don't have to bitch about it write a post about it to prove to yourself u r write and she was wrong...and let others tell u were right
*she might not be
hehehe. my dear, thats what the whole common courtesy thing in this post is all about. 'IF' she was having some problems and wants to be left alone and dont wanna be around ppl as ur saying, could she not send an sms saying so jes like u have said jes now? OR maybe an sms saying she's sorry she cant attend. see. that wasnt so difficult now was it. all it would take was "sorry i cant come. having some probs"....seven words. but like ur saying, its jes too much isnt it? OR maybe pick up the fone afterwards and say those seven words herself...OR reply to all the sms's with one sms saying those words. so many options. but ur saying its all too much huh? sad. and i dont have to prove to myself u know, its obvious that there's nothing wrong with a lil common courtesy. or r u saying there is? that spending 25laari on an sms which says jes seven words is too much to do for a 'friend'?
P.S- that was fast of you to abandon the whole "this just shows u do anything and everything expecting a return. i dunno wats worse." thing of urs. vat happened to all that tough talk?
Boo Hoo waa haa soo sad..hatharu udhares fenu jehunee dho..Arra ge dhuniye nimumakah aiee dho..aneykaa ves anhenaku eyna eydhilavaa fadhain kamey nukuree dho..YOU SERIOUSLY NEED TO GET LAID
one anonymous mite not be the other anonymous...the tough talking one and the sweet talking one....once again the world doesn't revolve around u...so she doesn't haven't to tell u everything....and u don't give something just because u want something back....if that is the case...your way of thinking is seriously messed up...so what is the point of this post...to show how right u were and wrong of her to dismiss u...or that you gave her 300rf on her birthday and that now expect something of the same value for yours....you are just being materialistic...you seem to be measuring things in how much they are worth and how fancy they are....caring doesn't mean giving expensive things or taking to fancy dinner's
Happy belated birthday... happy?
she wished u on ur birthday even though she was hving a bad time. that was common courtesy enough.
where's ur common courtesy writing this article and whinning abt this to the whole world? i'm sure half the people who read this thing already knows who she is by now.
cut her some slack man. THE WHOLE WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU. give it some thought.
sigh. ppl ppl ppl. for those comments the way for me to reply would be to write what i did before but it jes doesnt seem to be getting through now does it. i keep on asking whether the stuff i asked for in the 6th paragraph was too much to ask for from a dear friend or not? a simple question. thats what i said in the comments too. but all u anonymous blokes are walking past that Q over n over again and writing abt stuff to which i have already answered to. maybe its ppl who actually know this girl and are eager to 'protect' her by all means, or maybe its someone too eager to comment against something that he/she couldnt even bother reading the whole post. sigh
@anonymous007: u seriously need to get laid? lol. heheh. is that ur comeback for everything? next u know they'll be going "u seriously need to get high" or "u seriously need to use heroin" or "u seriously need to have some alcohol". :s sheeesh!
@anonymous: sweet talking? lol. hehe. if thats sweet talking i'd hate to hear the offensive talking. hehe. what u said in ur comment nearing the end of it is so true. i totally agree with that. now go back and actually READ the post. the 6th and 9th paragraph. then tell me if i had said that i was expecting ANY of that. :)
@anonymous: another one who hasnt read it. refer 1st and 2nd sentence of the 8th paragraph( i feel like an index for dummies now)
@anonymous: u would call THAT common courtesy from a dear friend? Im glad i dont know or have ur friends then.whew! i feel bad for u now. but atleast i feel a lil better now. thanx :) yea, abt 3ppl would know who she is since she mustve told them. no one else would. IF they somehow do......*bows down in respect* :)
i know i am not someone who would say this on public and i d have rather said this to you face to face. i always thought when i wished some one that i was making him or her feel special... if it was an sms or mms or blog post or fb wish or a flickr photo i think it was because that person cared enuf to wish you... i dont care how as long as im remembered and wished ... but we are different... being an understanding freind doesnt mean u dont hvae to keep it all inside u it also doesnt mean that u cnat be upset about it, it was good u told her and i am happy tht u speak ur mind... if this was some sort of an apology this is a great post but if its not the girl is going to be hurt and guilty... feeling guilty is worse than most stuff. this wasnt right to writ about. because i have a feeling ethat the common courtesy of apologizing even if you dont forget is to keep the whole thing between u too and keep the rest of the world out of it... you might not agree but that just what i think... you have to agree i am better than the anonymous people yaaaaay
sorry this is mistake "if this was some sort of an apology this is a great post" i meant revenge instead of apology"
@Andhu: it definitely is LOADS better than those. and it made so much more sense as well. thank you for that. and for the compliment as well :p. hehe. have fun today. afterall, its ur birthday. glad to hear u got vat u wanted. wonderul feeling aint it? :D
oh and i have stopped expecting stuff from people along time ago i think u should do the bad for health
not really man i am in the same situation as u ... some one i wish would wish me has forgotten my birthday... SOE to be exact hehe ... what i am most happy is that every one is wishing me through facebook, flickr,blogger, sms ,msn and face to face wish you were here... we had chees cake
and saying his name is revenge yay it feels good
yea, thats vat everyone seems to be saying. "dont expect ppl to treat you the way u do them. so either drop ur expectations or find better friends" . and i wish i was there too. miss the malay group.
got a guitar. got a system. i think we both know who went boo boo, dude. true that i didnt read the whole post. its hard to translate crap into english.
miyah dhivehin kiyaa ulhenee 'kala govun' dho?
@iya: so why r u of all ppl getting so worked up abt it? im sure u couldve figured it was crap for u from the start.....isnt everything ever created crap to u as well? i thought it was hard enough for u to translate anything let alone crap. but thanx for bringing it to our notice. :)
@anonymous: thanx for letting us know who needs to grow up by showing how much ur losing it to the point of emerging out of the filth pool. we all knw uve got issues against common courtesy but dude...seriously...calm down.
@anonymous: yea, i guess so. but atleast we know who we shouldnt be handing those words to be translated to.
lol. so there are some people who think that u gave her 300 cuz u wanted sumthin back. guess they think that everyones like them eh? such losers.
Dude, pay no heed to these losers who are actually trying to talk against someone having common SENSE to call up a dear friend on their bday. Im surprised they don’t see just how stupid they are making themselves out to be. Pathetic I tell you. Here you are asking “whether the stuff i asked for in the 6th paragraph was too much to ask for from a dear friend or not?” like he said, its such a simple question but everyone’s avoiding it because despite their senseless shouting against you even they themselves know that what ur saying is right. So I too am guessing they are either protecting this girl upto the point of not making any sense or for some reason they don’t like you and is taking it out on you like iya is doing without even bothering to read what uve written.
Ive known you for a long time and your one of the bestest friends anyone could have. Im a 100% sure this certain girl wont deny it either. The only problem with you is that your too nice. Theres a limit to everything and you are one of those few ppl who actually takes it further. But ill tell you this my friend. This is Maldives. Most ppl here are the kind that doesn’t know how to appreciate others or the things they do. So I like this post a lot. Even though this is a bit harsh and even if uve written abt this girl here in ur blog , you haven’t named her and even we don’t know who she is. And this is a necessary step. Like uve said “i believe its worse to
hold it all in and jes fake a smile and be the person who always go i totally understand. its all ok. i have no problem at all with any of
it. so lets smile and pretend nothing ever happened" so true so true. U need to stop all expectations. Or find new friends who actually appreciate what you do for them.
Anyway uve got loads of friends. I haven’t met anyone whose got more contacts and more friends than you do. You’re the best. And besides materialistic or not,u got a laptop and a guitar on your birthday dude. So screw these losers.
@calli pix: go figure huh?
@anonymous: errrr..... i know ur talking in my defense but dude....dont u think ur overdoing it a bit? it looks like a post. heheh. but nevertheless appreciate u sticking up for me. and yea, ud somehow let me know who the hell you are wont u? :p
are u dumb or something. u want someone to hit u with a bat before u realise that people need their space. sometimes reciprocating is not compulsory. didnt it ever occur that maybe she is staying at arms length cos u might be getting the wrong signal (u'v had that scenario b4) or maybe her bf doesnt like it. cant u take a hint. n to think u were smarter than that.
and one more thing, arnt u violating the privacy of ur friendship by publishing all her smses. now hows she gonna feel abt that. come on bro. just think for a while b4 going all nuclear.
man get on with your life! cant you see no girl wants you .. noone likes you! all these anonymous ppl im sure they are your friends! imagine your friends as anonymous are commenting on your post
balaaverikan thiothy aissa!!dhen goruhandaa
dude...i've always talked about expecting! u went against the golden rule! "EXPECT NOTHING" look at me! :) i dont expect shit from anyone...so i never get dissapointed..i dont have problems with ANYONE...lifes just so simple wen u dont EXPECT stuff..hehe..
with that said..uhh dude O_o is this one tree hill or sumthin? :S seriously..all this over ONE person not wishing you...ok lets compare...you got the best birthday party ever! and just to top it off..a laptop AAANND a guitar...i havent had a birthday party since i was 9! :S and i'm still alive...so umm my question is...why arent u satisfied with what u've already got?..:S *question mark*
some people here seem to be very jelous of you. hehe. u go dude! thigolaa emeehunnah thure maa kaamiyaabu vaane. hehe. nagoo kendin thakeh ei, alhaa nulaa.
i think it's natural for one to expect yr closest people to treat u likewise. even i'd have expected more from her than what she gave. but i just get the feeling there's a deeper layer to this story. i mean some kinda tension already between u two that led to her being 'away from the world'. it maybe something to do with her bf, i dont know.
anywayz shit happens, everyone's been there. if i were u i'd distance myself from her cos looks like she needs some space. she'd probably apologise later & try to patch things up if she value yr friendship...
" i dont
expect her to buy me a cake and wish me at 00:00 going to anyplace i
was and then giving me a wonderful present and dinner and the lot."
So detailed.. u sure u didn't expect that?
Some people have problems at stages in their life. Sometimes they don't even want to talk to the people closest to them. U being such a greeeeaatttt friend and all like u so modestly claim, should understand that.
U should really take a step back and have a look at the treament u give ur friends before u go and publish what ur friend THOUGHT was a private conversation. Telling YOUR side of a story, putting YOURSELF on a pedastool, leaving people to pull YOUR "friend" apart.
I don't expect u to take any of this on board of course bcoz u don't seem to like people disagreeing with u & ur pedastool is probably too high to hear others opinions.
Ur a walking contradiction, u say u want 2 hear different opinions, yet shut them down when they're given.
"life doesnt sux, neither does love. its ppl that sux. and how they choose to react to different situations" -someone's wise words
if she needed arms length or even if it was bf probs she could always tell. angayeh dhevvaafa othee kamakuey. OR we now even have mobile fones and this wonderful service called SMS.
@anonymous folks at top: i highly doubt they are my friends. even if they are i dont give a damn. cos the ppl that are close and the ppl that actually mattered to me would come up to me and talk abt it instead of being cowards who would go behind my back and talk. i could gladly do without pl like that without any regrets at all :)
@shan: so true in the first paragraph and most of the second too. why? cos im sick n tired of putting up that fake smile and i want it to be known that i wont take that shit anymore. and if anyones got a prob with that, they cud jes bugger off.
hypnotic: thax dude. plus its not that im gona change my beliefs and principles jes cos some low lives find no better alternative than the filth pool to justify their means.
@shaari. hmmmm, words of wisdom. im impressed. yea, i think theres something else there as well. but i dont think its something to do with her bf. if it is she definitely aint who i thought she was. she's mor sane and stronger than that. although i highy doubt abt the apology thing. lets see how much she values it huh?
@anonymous folks at bottom: its detailed cos its something i did :p. and ill agree that writing the sms's here aint the best thing. shouldve written a summarised one. but as far as im concerned there are only 3 ppl who know its her and those are ones whose herd the story from her. plus its a post to show how disregarded common courtesy is nowadays thru the experience i had. and i do listen to other opposing ones as well. jes the ones that makes sense, pays heed to what i have to say as wel, and doesnt resort to the shit pool everyime they find no way to back up their oppositions of opinions. u really dont expect me to listen to "DON'T fucking cross. u crossed it big time asshole. fuck u!" and actually pay heed to their opinions do u? simple as that.
@calli: nice observation. hmmmm, i think u may be right there. why else right? though there are a few ones that makes perfect sense. ill achknowledge that.
@anonymous: true true.
@t man: this post isnt abt bulhaa u know.
and yeah some would say nice things to get there blogs commented nicely by others also......
callι ριxєlғcuкєя: Ass licking on a whole new level. Congrats!
dude :S i thought u were the kinda person who says watever that comes to ur head..not the type that hides..oh well.........
ooh and one more thing.. fake smile to a acer core2duo???? how cud u!!! O_O hehe :D
It's sounding a bit like u want the world to revolve around u from what ur saying.
U don't have 2 hold it in a fake a smile. If u truely think she's not a worthy friend, couldn't u just distance urself from her instead of bitching on a blogging site.
U would like ur friends to come and talk to u face to face if they have a problem yet u unleash through sms and blogging.
I agree u do have a right to be mad at her though. Although I think ur reaction to the situation showed a lack of maturity. If u feel u were right in what u did then u shouldn't have to ask other people's opinions in hope that they will agree.
Not everyone is going to agree with u, if they did it would be a very boring world.
I think u need some fresh posts by the way. Lighten up
dude u hold things to close to u
when it try to go u still dont wanna let it go,jus let it go
if u dont it will jus try to get away more and more
maybe u expected a bit more
this is entertaining.
@anonymous at the top: hmmm, if someone agrees with me its ass licking. soooooo, whose ass are u licking then? and the thought of licking my ass actually occured to u to say it. *eeeeep!!* now im scared. Neheeeeeee!
@shan: oooooh. hehehhe. lol. that wasnt fake btw. like u said how could i even start to fake a smile to THAT? lol. hehehe
@anonymous above starky: hmmmm, finally someone anonymous that isnt an ass. i must say i have to agree on some of the stuff uve said. thanx for the pointers :)
@starky: that i do bro, that i do. ill never deny that. dunno n dont care abt others but i expect more from friends that have been dear.
thats the question im asking here right? whether if i was asking for too much in this case. but unfortunately most anonymous ppl commenting here lacks a brain to get that part though ive said it countless times. so what can i possibly do abt their stupidity right? ;)
@anonymous below starky: "ekkaalhu gui raa irah aneh kaalhuves guiran eba jehey". how old are you? 10? "u licked ass. u licked ass. paapapaaparampum. grow a bone. grow up. get laid. yada yada yada" such poor unfortnate souls i tell u. oh god! why do u not help these goons? alas! and to think cowards are actually telling others to grow a back bone. lol. thats jes hilarious dude. hggh.
ahaa 56 comments and i shud say sumthin again here!
arraa why r u so being like a sissy now? jus bcuz a girl didnt wish you? cmon ..i thought u were a much better person that that..rather than complainin abt that u can
thank her because she wished you thru an sms!!
why are u being so i dunno seriously sounds so sissy now! ';p
anyways i want to say is expectation=dissapointment
be happy that u got a laptop and a guitar and a i dunno what else!!
man u r goin all kajeebees now..pis pis
cut sum slack..u r just making a big fuss over it arra!! not everyone wil go on the way u want..not everyone will wish you on ur bday!! and last... u wont get everything you want in this world!!
phew!heee heee
correction - not bcuz she didnt wish u..but because she didnt giv u a present and didnt come to ur bday and all of it u mentioned int hat sms of urs u sent her!
lol. i think i enjoy reading ur replies to these anonymous comments even more than the post itself. obinoavey! and im gonna answer the question u asked for a change. NO! you arent asking for too much. if thats asking for too much to some ppl then i pity them for having friends as they do. like you said "poor unfortunate souls". so sad, lonely and frustrated to not be appreciated by anyone among their friends.
and sorry arra for writing this part in ur blog,i know she's ur friend but i need to say this
to aesha: its obvious that not everyone will go up to someone's expectations. you of all ppl should know this part. ur being a hypocrite now. and if i got this right, wasnt it arra who arranged a party and invited friends over for you and turned that get together to your bday party? i saw him drag all those chairs to the eighth floor with some friends help ofcourse and even the bday cake was from him right? dont tell me that didnt make you happy. so when the expectation line is drawn this low and still a dear friend of his doesnt do a single thing of those doesnt he have a right to be disappointed abt it? he doesnt have to think like you right? and i dont see why he should stop all expectations and stop being so nice even to those friends who DO appreciate it just becos of some ppl who dont give a shit.
anonymous - yea he was the one arranged the party! it was nice of him to do that..but it wasnt sumthin i expected... him turning the getogether into my bday
what im sayin is he is goin all kajeebees over sumthin ..over a girl ..a frend who didnt cum to his bday party and all of that stuff he wrote in this post..i think its just too much..thank her that she atleast wished him..
like i said before u wont get all you want in this life!
as for me that party was fun and great! and i had fun :)
@aesha: looks like uve confirmed that what the anonymous guy said was true,then i must say ur pretty disappointing. that was fast of you to go sissy sissy kajeebees on the guy all because he was expecting something from a friend. thank god i dont have someone like you as a friend.
shaaad - hey he knows im a hypocrite very well:P..nd plus yea i agree on what he have said..
ill say wats on my mind at anyone..ppl hoo can tolerate it can b my frends..who cnt they can jus shoo away
hehehe. thats aesha for u. and anyway, i dont take anything she says in an offensive way. she's someone who'll always speak her mind. ;)
anonymous- omg omg!! thank you. and nah, i dont teach cowards like you. sorry. thank u once again =)
this is fun!! im reading all these comments here everyday keke...this is funn!!
arra ur blog is gona get thousands of hits for this..>!
blog post of d century keke
eh and i heard ur lap is the same exact as mine? i never saw it though
and abt d post...well there are gurls like that...thats why i dont expect anythng from others..what i do to others i do for my own satisfaction..i get happy when i give my frnds gifts on their bday and stuff..but yeah there are some from whom I DO expect atleast SOMETHING from dho...
just one thing.. a friend who ditches u like that isnt worth a friend after u did that all for her.. hmm jst my thought...
anyways dont be a crybaby here hehe mee hus bodaa haakaafa oy post ehnu!
ma nukian ekkosheh ves heevani kuda lha kujjeh hen bodaaaa haakaafa oy varun keke ma mi kianee meega huri comment thah...
this is fun!
@i-kko: yep. mee hama bodaa haakaafa oi posteh. heheh. and like u said i too enjoy reading the comments more than the post itself. and atleast now ive herd what both sides had to say and the conclusion: its not too much to ask for from a friend ,i dont feel guilty abt it or giving her a piece of my mind at all. but it wouldve been better if i had summarised those sms's to bring up the point.
i totally understand wat u wud b feeling, i wud feel the same if some one i have a crush on doesnt know i exist.
i dont think u wud ave posted this if this gurl was just any friend.Cos i know others who didnt wish u on ur birthday and u didnt make a big deal out of it.i think u have sumthin else in ur heart for this girl.n i guess da girl kinda knows it .maybe she is freaked out.
different ppl react to problems differently.not everyone goes on posting their hearts on the internet o maybe less. try to understand others feeling.she is jus a friend not ur wife,she doesn't have to tell u her problems SHE IS JUST A FRIEND like any other friend u have.
O by the way i knw wat ever i say u wud stick with ur argument just like ur name says angain naaraa teddy's "BABBLINGS" eventhough u might not be right.
@anonymous: lol. hggh. hehehe. i think u and me are really far from understanding each others feelings. heheh. the day i would have a crush on her. lol. hehehe. now that would be a day. though there is one person who probably prays nothing does ever happen....apart from me and her that is. heheh. but nevertheless i really enjoyed reading ur comment. and yea, i would stick to my arguments at its core but still i would change the way i feel abt it and broaden my views in the future if the opposing argument makes sense enough.
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